How would you describe someone to another person who has never met them? Sure, you can define their character and positive traits. It would be better to describe their facial features so the second person can locate the first person in a crowd.
When it comes to describing our ancestors, we need to use words to help our family pick out their ancestors in photos or in a list of names that might mean little without mental images based on physical descriptions.
When describing facial features, start with the easiest to describe first – eye color. Whenever possible, don’t settle for dull words like blue and brown. Be more specific.
Once you’ve described the eye color, provide details about the eye shape. This can be challenging but give it a go.
Once you have the eyes covered, zoom out and focus on the face shape. There are seven basic face shapes in make-up, but in writing, we can be more creative with our choices. Granted, some words are a bit inflammatory, so be careful which ones you use. In the meantime, let’s have a little fun exploring the possibilities!
Okay, pumpkinesque and marshmallow-shaped are probably not the best choices for our ancestors. I included them for laughs, to check if you were reading, and to trigger other descriptive words you could use.
I like words such as moon-round or flat. I especially when like these words when combined with another adjective such as broad, moon-round, or narrow, flat face.
Next, move on to Skin color and texture. It’s not enough to say white or black. That does nothing to account for the spectrum of skin colors and take into account the texture of the skin.
Many photographs can provide a hint as to the skin color and complexion of an individual. Isn’t umber, baby-soft a better way to describe dark, soft skin? I think so.
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One final feature of facial descriptions is the hair, especially on men in past generations. Choosing the right words about the hairy side of a face can nail down a written portrayal of a man.
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Please give it a go. Describe the mug of the man or woman you call ancestor. When you do, put a link in the comments to your blog post, Facebook postings, or Instagram photo with your description.
Once again, the essential thing to remember when describing your ancestor is to do your best to paint a picture for your readers. If someone disagrees with your word choice, tell them to write their own story!
What great words have you used to describe your ancestors? Be sure to add yours or share the description in the comments section.